Alex King SOC-10 10/13/12 Breaking Social Norms In our society we have a number of norms that we abide by. For example, there is an unwritten rule of how one should behave in an elevator. It is “proper” to face front, stand away from strangers, and not to look at others. When a social norm is broken people may respond with alarm, humour, fear, irritation, or an array of other emotions. When you think of a norm, you are probably thinking about simply being normal. But in psychology terms, norm means a standard or representative value for a group. A social norm is some sort of an expectation that our society has that is deemed normal by that society; they tell us which behaviors, thoughts, or feelings are appropriate within a given …show more content…
The gesture was small and confined to a very small space, yet it proved to generate great and powerfully negative reactions. As stated earlier, this experiment completely proved my hypothesis wrong. Many of the people that rode the elevator with me stared at me as though there were something wrong with me. Most were uncomfortable and fidgety and kept looking over their shoulder at me as they rode forward, and me, backwards. More than a few asked if I was alright and even asked my friend, who was acting as if he did not know me, knew what was was wrong. I even conducted a few controlled experiments where I rode the elevator forward to see if people would react to me then, but not a single person outside of the experiment even acknowledged my existence. I would have thought that in a place like L.A. County, people would be too busy to notice others, or people would have been raised to mind their own business and keep to themselves, but apparently abiding my social standards and making sure that others do as well is a higher priority. I suppose one can use conformity as a reasoning for these results. Society as a whole has learned to conform to social standards and change their behavior to fit in so they aren't so different from others, so as not to be the odd one out and when they see others behaving differently than themselves, or as the society that they're in, they're labeled as “weird” or “strange.” Behaviorists might say
Social norms are rules of behaviour acceptable to a group or community. These can include both formal rules such as always stopping at a red light and informal rules such as not picking your nose in public. Social norms can be applied throughout group or social settings (Psychology Dictionary, 2017) with peer influences ‘are indeed a powerful determinant of why students turn out the way they do.’ (Hanushek, Machin & Woessmann, 2010)
In society people are expected to follow many unwritten rules that are thought to be the “norm”. When one decides to break one of societies unwritten rules it puts not only the rule breaker but everyone around in positions where they are forced out of their comfort zones and must adjust to the abnormal. For this assignment the task was to choose multiple norms to break in front of various audiences then analyze the experience both as the norm breaker and reactions of the unknowing audience. This paper will discuss breaking of an interpersonal behavior norm by standing too close to others while browsing various stores in a mall. Also a social etiquette norm will be evaluated by choosing to sit on the floor at a food service establishment to
A norm is defined as expectations, or rules of behavior that reflect and enforce behavior.(Henslin, 2009) When people are in public settings we expect individuals to behave in a certain way. For example when standing in line to see a show or to purchase an item we expect everyone to stand in a single file line. We expect individuals to wait their turn as they proceed to the front of the line. Another expectation or norm is we expect individuals to have dinning etiquette when eating in restaurants. We expect people to dine using the proper utensils. I thought about this example as I was pondering for an observation to perform. I decided that I would take a chance and visit a well respected restaurant in my area and break the norm
Hello Kiersten…I like how you went into the types and classes of deviance and defined each of them. I definitely agreed with you that human trafficking would be considered a deviant group because these groups of people are engaging in behaviors that violate the social norm. This is a crime to humanity not just to these victims. I puzzled me to know that 14,500- 17,500 people are being trafficked into the United States yearly. This is preposterous to know that as a world power, we are allowing such behavior to go on. You also mentioned the emotional, physical, mental and psychological effect on these victims. Last year, I read a story about a Chinese lady named Lili Huang, 35, who brought a 58-year-old woman from China to work for her as a nanny
norms are social expectations that guide people's behavior in society. Society dictates people to act a certain way and breaking this will be violating a social norm. Some norms may be more serious than others, depending on how society views it. It is known to never talk back and forth with parents or elderly people or even make discourteous gestures when talking. Society labels this as being disrespectful. I have never indulged in such disrespectful act.The appropriate behavior l be to let your parents speak and after they are done, you can then respond. Although it is more stressed in some cultures than other cultures. For example, where I come from, Gambia, when our parents are talking or an elderly person, we bend our heads down to show respect. But after coming to the United States, it became less stressed. It may not be that big of a deal in some cultures or countries, but it may be taken into high consideration in some other cultures.
Within the last few weeks I decided to take part and violate a social norm. Recently I decided to switch out the hard drive in my iMac so the performance would improve on it. I invited my close friend over to keep my company and if he wanted to help he could. He is not too computer savvy as I am, which lead to numerous questions. As he opened the flood gate and started firing questions at me I start to stand close to him. After his third question I moved from one spot and move a lot closer to him. I not sure how far we were from each other, but I started to feel uncomfortable myself as I am sure he was wondering what in the world was going on. He reacted by leaning backwards in the opposite direction and then just flat out told me that I was
In society, today most people live by what we call “social norms” a representation of an individual’s own basic knowledge of what others do and what they think they should do; some follow suite and some don’t. We are all living in a world where everyone has different opinions and judgments. Also, every one of us has a different perspective of the world and what we know is merely based on our own experiences. One only adapts to what they are familiar with and at times you tend to lose out because they’re reluctant of change so we resort back to our norm of life. We are prisoners of our own ability and we are subject to the social patterns we live in.
For my breaching project, I will be breaking the social norm of wearing shoes. I believe it is a social norm to wear shoes when outside. From my observation, around Bluffton University, it is normal for students and professors to wear some sort of footwear while in the classroom or outside. I realize there is a group of students on campus who already do not wear shoes, so to differentiate myself I will be wearing only socks. I choose this norm project because it was something subtle since I am a somewhat quiet person. Also, this is a small campus and I am a freshman, so I would rather not do something that people will remember me by. I plan to do this on Bluffton’s campus throughout the day Friday, September 29th. I will be conducting
Social norm is the understanding people can influence our behavior in day to day basis. In social norms in society there is implicit rules which, is known as the not spoken but, you learn them when you deviate the rule by breaking the social norms in society such as, values, beliefs, attitudes, morals and behavior. People tend to follow the norms of society or the group. But, not following the social norms of society, individuals might think your deviant. However, social norms can be biased sometimes because, every culture has different norms and values. For example, shaking hands between both genders is very common in western countries because, it's seen as a norm. Whereas, in other parts of the world handshake between men and women can
A norm is something that is usual, typical, or standard. Norms can come in all shapes and sizes and each holds their own unique purpose to a culture. In the society we live in today, these norms have developed more sophisticatedly into what are known as social norms. These are the rules of behavior that are considered acceptable in a group or society. These norms are taken so seriously that people who do not follow them can be shunned or suffer in some way, typically emotionally. For example, a common social norm is shaking hands when you meet somebody. If you were to not extend your arm out to meet theirs in a handshake, you would be looked at as disrespectful. The expected reaction would be one of anger, but at the same time there would be an awkward pause because it would feel wrong to defy the norm and neither one of you would know how to react.
Societies expect people not to behave randomly, but depending on the situation, to adjust their personality to the unwritten rules of every social occasion. However, the question is, how social norms can make people happy? To what extent do they serve us except predicting each other’s behavior and feeling safe as a result? In “Milgram Obedience” and “Stanford Prison” experiments, Nazi doctors who were using Jews for their tests are profound examples of how corruptive the conformity from a social norm can be to human nature, and on the other hand how acceptable and normal it can become despite her repulsive nature.
In this project I decided to be over-talkative in the sense that whenever someone spoke to me and asked how I was doing or what was new in my life, I would go above and beyond what they probably were expecting me to do so. So for me being a deviant in this way made perfect sense because I normally don’t talk much about myself, more of a listener than anything. I started everything out by going about my normal day, errands and going to my college classes. So I went to Wal-Mart of all places and not even five minutes into my shopping there I ran into two friends that I haven’t seen in a long time, and of course they said, “So how have you been? Anything new going on in your life?” So I went into the deviance
Norm is a sociologically accepted pattern of behavior, which is used in society in a specific context. Norms are usually presented as informal understandings that are not written in laws or regulations, but they are accepted orally. Norms, however, could be changed in the course of time due to the shifts in social, political, and cultural life.
'Social norms are rules and standards that are understood by members of a group, they identity belief systems about our perceptions of how or not to behave. They are used to guide behaviour without the force of laws' Prislin & Wood (2008). Social norms help us to apprehend uneasiness. They attribute to our judge ment of how
Don’t know what people want, or what is expected, I want to walk this life bare-naked, to remain undetected, Questioning why people want me to act normal, to conform, I feel puzzled and broken, not knowing the social norm. I want to find the answers, so I am pondering, Do not interrupt me, in my mind, I’m wandering. When my thoughts are burning, itching, Don’t want wounds that need stitching, Sometimes when I am on the edge of safe, At those moments, it’s love that I crave.